Having bipolar disorder can be a very lonely experience.  It's like being on the outside looking in. Other people- sometimes even those closest to you- may not show compassion. They don't understand that bipolar behavior is part of an illness, not a result of personality or character flaws. This lack of understanding can make you feel even more alone.

Loving someone who has bipolar disorder also can be a very lonely experience. You unexpectedly may find yourself in a caregiver role. When things are going badly you may not know what to do or who to turn to. Maybe there is no one to talk to or ask for help. Sometimes you can't even communicate with your loved one's doctor because he or she is unable or chooses not to include partners or family members in the treatment process. Or perhaps there is no doctor because the bipolar sufferer is in denial about having the illness and refuses to get help.  

Whether you have bipolar disorder or love someone who does, please know you are not alone.  The International Bipolar Support Network was created to offer support, guidance, consultation, evaluation, and treatment to those with the illness, their partners, and family members.